Want A Long Term Relationship? Never Say These Words To Your Partner

Never Say These Words To Your Partner: Most of us might have felt the same in some, or the other phase of our life. Do you know the reason why 80% of people fail to experience the love and companionship they expect from their partners? Relationships are very complicated, and no one has yet found an exact formula for a picture-perfect relationship or the Happily Ever After kind of couple. Though we have seen inspiring couples and sometimes feel jealous, we have seen only one side of the coin. There are issues, complications, misunderstanding and what not! What keeps them together is the desire to live together.

The love stories and movies display an illusionary world where it rains when you are in love, but the real-life is completely opposite. That is the reason why most people stay away from love and relationships and prefer singing the above song.

World-famous poet and writer Galib has defined love as the river of fire, and indeed, it is one. Still, if you wish to enter into it, and are looking for a long term relationship, then there are a few things you must always keep in mind.

Below are some lines you should Never Say To Your Partner you want them to trust you and prefer you above all.

The biggest problem anyone can face in a relationship is also the reason why you are reading this article. Okay! Let us tell you. It happens in all sorts of relationships. One day or the other, you feel that charm is missing. Now! What is that charm we are talking about? You or your partner fall in love because of a few attributes; these attributes can be materialistic things, beauty, or specific qualities. These attributes cannot hold them for a long time. Both of you must strengthen the bond in the starting phase. If you are still in that attraction phase and do not want it to end, then there are a few words you must never say to your partner.

❍ Never Say— “I DON’T BELIEVE YOU.”

Trust is the principal factor in all relationships. When it comes to romantic relationships however trust becomes even more valuable. You must not break their trust is an unwritten rule. Another tip you should remember is that you should never say, ‘I don’t trust you.’ Even if your trust has been broken once, you must think if you can trust your partner. You have all the right to move on if you don’t trust them anymore, but if you want to give another chance, then you must not repeat the line time and again. If you still feel insecure, then you can say, “Sorry, I do want to believe you, but I am having problems. Give me some time.”

❍ Never Say, “YOU’RE OVERREACTING“OR “YOU’RE OUT OF CONTROL.” 

Fights and arguments are the integral parts of any relationship, and no relationship is incomplete without conflicts. While it is necessary to fight sometimes; you must not lose control and be aware of the words you use. What you are saying in the heat of the argument can leave a long-lasting impact on your partner. You must never blame your partner for the fight and try to understand their point as well. If you really think they were at fault, then rather than saying you are overreacting, you can say, I think we are upset right now and are not getting each other. We should take a break and talk about it later.

❍ Never Say, “WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU?”

We often feel that our partner is overreacting over trivial things and is frustrated about something. Anger is a natural feeling, and none of us can escape. Still, we fail to understand our partners when they are angry and start scolding them instead. This behavior of ours infuriates them further and impacts the bond because they might feel we don’t understand them. What you should do is to ask if they are okay! Say, you trust them, and everything will be fine. It will calm them down, and they will definitely share their feelings with you.

❍ Never say, “HMM, OKAY, NOTHING “

These are the words that damage your relationship like termites. We indeed feel like staying alone for sometimes, and isolation is all that we need at such times. Still, ignoring your partner is not the answer. They are continually asking if you are okay because they are worried about you. In case you are not feeling like sharing your problem with them, you should tell them that you are not okay and would reply after some time. It is way better than ignoring them with words like, Hmm, Okay, Nothing.

❍ Never say —“I’m DONE” OR “IT’S OVER!”

There are times we feel like they are not the correct person for us, and we can no longer go along. Breakup is better than an exhausting relation, but there is a better way to say this. If both of you are in a healthy relationship, then you won’t like to regret it later. Even if you are sure that you want to end it, there is a better way to say this. Share your feelings with them. Tell them what is bothering you. Say you are having problems and ask if they have a solution for it.

Above, we have enlisted some lines you must never say to your partner if you are looking for a long term relationship. These lines mostly become the reason for most breakups, and you must avoid saying words that might hurt the confidence of your partner. You must be there for them, when they are feeling low, and say I trust you rather than saying you can’t do it.